TATTOO U: BABY DUMP YES! TATTOO NO!

How do you spell hypocrisy?

B-L-A-G-O-J-E-V-I-C-H.

Baby Dump lover Illinois Governor Rod Blagojevich has sunk deeper than lowest depths of Lake Michigan--if that' s possible. On August 10 he vetoed a section of HB 29 which would have reduced the legal age in the state for getting tattoos from 21 t0 18.

Now what does this have to do with adoption?

Plenty!

In a press release issued by the governor's office, Nanny Boy Blago declared that Illinoisans between the ages of 18 and 21--especially his daughters-- incompetent to make their own decisions regarding what they can and cannot do with their own bodies:

As a parent, I don't want my daughters to rush to get tattoos on their 18th birthday. At that age, most kids are still in high school and dont' have judgment or perspective to decide on something as permanent as tattooing your skin. Teenagers may not realize getting a tattoo is a decision they'll live with and potentially regret the rest of their lives That's why I refuse to support legisation that allowed a teenager(s) to get tattoos."

Well who cares what you think, Blago! You couldn't wait to ink HB 175, the bill that removed the sunset provision from Illinois Safe Place for Newborns Act 2 years early; thus making newborn abandonment legal in the state forever--no questions asked at any age. All teens need apply!

In BlagoLogic it's better for his daughters to get knocked up, keep it secret, have no prenatal care or counseling, give birth in a bath tub in a cheap motel in Cicero (or better yet, the Executive Mansion), and drop it off at an ER so he'll never have to know... than get a tat they might regret for the rest of their lives.

In BlagoLogic it's better for his daughters to risk life-threatening pregnancy-related disabilities including infection, breech birth, placenta previa/acceta (which can require a C-section delivery), preelampsia, toxemia, pregnancy-induced hypertension, hyperemesis. post-partum depression, or psychosis...and death... than get a tat they might regret for the rest of their lives.

In BlagoLogic it's better for his grandchildren to suffer from cerebral palsy, mental retardation and delay, blindness, diabetes, and hyperlipidemia, short life spans..and death...than their mothers get a tat they might regret the rest of their lives.

Please someone! Why must the state protect teenagers from getting tats, but encourage these same teenagers to have a secret pregnancy delivery, and relinquishment?

Oh, I forgot! If it saves just one....

Brendan McCarthy in the August 10 Trib points, out, at the age of 20 Illiinoisans can buy cigarettes, buy a home, carry a firearm, run for political office, and enlist in the military. According to icasualities.org, as of today, 76 Illinois soldiers--all voluntary enlistments-- have died in Iraq. While no ages are listed, certainly some of these volunteer soldiers were under the age of 21. They no doubt regret joining up, that is they would regret it if they were still alive. Should we expect Blago to propose legislation then to ban military enlistment for under 21s to protect them from the War Party and from something they might regret for the rest of their lives? I won't hold my breath.

By the way. Blagojevich's daughters are only 9 and 2. Perhaps he has trouble picturing them as adults. But if he did, would he really want them to use the safe haven law? Did he ever even think about it?

GAGGED AND BANNED BY ADOPTION.COM: RUSSIAN MEMORIAM "MOCKS" ADOPTEES AND ADOPTIVE PARENTS

The response to Forever Family--Forever Dead has been overwhelming. All of it has been positive. Well, almost.

You might ask who would complain about a blog dedicated to the memory of Russian children murdered by their adoptive parents? Right? Well, I'll tell you who. adoption.com, that's who.

Deemed "anti-adoption," Bastardette has been booted off adoption.com forums, her account cancelled, and at least one of her essays housed in its Internet library removed.

And for what?

For writing The Daily Bastardette!

Specifically: Publishing Forever Family--Forever Dead.

Yes, you read that correctly! Those oh-so adoption friendly and supportive folks at adoption.com have declared Bastardette "disrespectful" of adoptive parents and adoptees. (No mention of birth parents, but do they really count over there anyway?)

The "official" reason, if you believe the mod's zany lecture, is that the use of the term "adopter"--in Bastardette's own blog not on the forums--is "anti-adoption." (We'll be discussing the term "adopter," and why it's a "threat" in a future blog.) But "adopter" isn't used at all in Forever Family--Forever Dead. In fact, it appears sparsely on these pages--April 3, May 6, May 8, and May 25. Of course, it wouldn't look good to beat up on small children thoughtless enough to be murdered by their Forever Families, thus, hindering the trade and commerce of adoption.com advertisers, so let's bitch slap "incorrect" language.

The forum moderator--or rather the "Super Moderator"--who cutely calls herself "Jensboys" and includes an avatar of her "boys" in her sig, seems to have gone out of her way to rationalize kicking me off--strange in itself. After all, the adoption.com police , always intent on controlling the discourse and keeping the cocoon comfy, are notorious for giving the boot, without notice or explanation, to anybody who breaks their rule de jour. Perhaps the forum rules were lifted from the PATRIOT Act. Carrying their nannyism to the extreme, adoption.com even has an automated censor that blanks out inappropriate words with **** only they don't furnish you with a list of Forbidden Words or explain why they are forbidden. Why any self-respecting adopted adult, birth parent, or adopter would stay around that joint, with its adoption piety and praise is beyond B*****d***e, but then she's not a former Mormon missionary making a truckload of $$$ off the misery, disempowerment, and insecurity of the adoption "triad" with her hands in the adoption industry's pocket and her head up NCFA's ass.

So what happened?

Bastardette has had an adoption.com account for a couple years, but has never posted. I mean, what can you say to Do-Beevilleers whose lives revolve around primal wounds, fear, and gratefulness, and would sooner eat a jar of carmelized chicken feet as demand their identities? But then again who knows? There might be a whole band of untapped bastards out there ready to march on NCFA , (hope there are) if only they weren't left cowering from the dom's....er, I mean mod's...flick of the whip at the slightest spark of politically incorrect bastard awareness,

Some brave soul, calling herself Hard Rock Girl, however, posted the link to Forever Family--Forever Dead to several adoption.com forums and other forums including Families for Russian and Ukrainian Adoption (FRUA), and Holt and Bethany boards under the title "A Very Sad Adoption Web Site. Within about 24 hours adoption.com and FRUA removed all Forever Family--Forever Dead threads after the easily offended and overly entitled complained about the memorial. It was just too upsetting for their delicate psychological conditions. Mysteriously, though, one adoption.com thread survived on the "International Adoption--General" forum. As of this writing, it is still up--and locked--so you can read the whole thing, including the scolding, but just can't reply. (Warning: this page seems to bo up and down.)

Unfortunately, because Bastardette is a dense and dumb adoptee, it never occurred to her to print out the bizarre statements about her and her blog that were posted on the forums. Even dumber and denser, she never imagined that the discussions would be taken down by hissy-fitting moderators who refuse to permit a dose of reality to be injected into their adoption dreamscape. You'd have thought Bastardette had let loose a skunk at a wedding.

Since the posts are now resting eternally in the ether, I'm going by memory, but here is the gist of the comments from both forums:

*Hard Rock Girl must be Bastardette spamming adoption groups to stir up
trouble and get publicity.

*Don't read Forever Family--Forever Dead. Bastardette, with that horrible name, sounds like the kind of person who'd send you a virus.

*Why was this posted? It does nothing to further the (my?) adoption process.

*How do we know these stories are true?

*This is old news. Why is it being dredged up now?

*12 out of over 5,000 kids adopted from Russia. That's not so bad.

*12 isn't such a high number. Look at all the parents who abuse and kill their bio-children in the US.

*12 isn't such a high number. Look at all the parents who abuse and kill their bio-children in Russia

*Look at all the kids we've saved in Russia; we've given them better lives.

*These murders might ruin my Russian adoption plan. I've already been waiting a year to pick up my child.

*This page/blog is anti-adoption. Don't pay any attention to it. Please remove this thread.

*Bastardette must have mental problems. She must have self-esteem problems. She must have been an abused child. She's unbalanced. She's an angry adoptee with issues. She hates adoption. Why else would she put up this page/blog. Ignore her. She's a sick crank

Well what's a girl to do? Bastardette, like her birth parents who couldn't keep their pants on, suffers from an impulse disorder. She could hardly sit still and read the amazingly bizarre comments about the Russian children, her blog, and herself. At 12:51 PM on August 7 she outted herself and posted to the the International Adoption-General forum. It was a nice post. A polite post as you will see if you go over and read it, even though Bastardette got a little egotistical and showed some of her "adoption credentials." There wasn't a ***** in sight. She closed her post explaining that she wasn't anti-adoption:

We are pro-ethical, transparent, and accountable adoption. We are pro-adoptee. In fact, the real anti-adoption people consider us and
me victims of Stockholm Syndrome.

At 3:07 PM, Super Dom Mom kicked Bastardette off of adoption.com and shut down the thread:

The use of certain terms designates a site as anti-adoption (and as such
adoptive parent and adoptee). For example, "adopter" is a derogatory term. The use of blog entries to mock parents of international adoptees, usng phrases the [sic] decry an aparents [sic] or adoptees [sic] ability to love each other as "real family" etc, etc etc.

It is absolutely imperative that adoption,
as it is practiced today, does seek reform. However, that will never occur until
each side can be respectful of the other

Let's get this staight now. Super Mod is more concerned about the use of "derogatory" terms such as "adopter" (which, btw, is the standard accepted term by adoption professionals--are they banned from adoption.com too?) than the murders of adopted children?

Is adoption so sacred to adoption.com that we must "respect" the adopter status of those killers of adopted children too small and too young to defend themselves?

Is adoption so fragile to adoption.com that we must "respect" the adopter status of those killers who were entrusted with the care of children by the governments of Russia and the US and then proceeded to beat, smack, kick, punch, slap, throttle, choke, scald, burn, smother, shake, starve and kill them?

Is adoption so brittle that adoption.com can't let its subscribers discuss news stories about unpleasant (or worse) adoption events for fear that the murderous actions of a few adopters will destroy adoption in this country?

If so, let's by all means honor these killers who, according to adoption.com must deserve our respect. Le't s open the jailhouse doors and praise these women and men for saving these poor Russian orphans and their gift of the Forever Grave. After all, who knows what horrible lives they'd be having today if it weren't for the international adoption industry, it's trolls, and the Simon Pures at adoption.com.

And remember, language trumps morals.

FORBIDDEN FRUIT?

The urge to protect their readers from the horrific experience of reading The Daily Bastardette and Forever family--Forever Dead hasn't paid off too well for adoption.com and FRUA. Before the link was shut down on those sites, The Daily Bastardette got the following hits directly from the sites:

221 - FRUA

111 - adoption.com

Holt and Bethany links have not been removed and a steady flow of hits comes in from those boards along from numerous other sources--nearly 900 hits at this point. This afternoon The Daily Kos picked up the link. On the adoptee-friendly about.adoption.com, a civil, discussion is taking place about Forever Family--Forever Dead and problems with Russian adoption, without a hint of rancor, fear, shock, accusation or moderator control. In fact the moderator is a very active participant in the discussion. No one is horrified and demands the discussion stop less their sensibilities burst. That's what happens when you let adults be adults., not infants who need to be watched over and controlled by cutely named baby sitters.

FOREVER FAMILY--FOREVER DEAD--UPDATE

Forever Family--Forever Dead was hardly up and out when Bastardette learned of a new addition--Dennis Merryman, who died January 22,2005 of starvation. His adoptive parents were arrested yesterday. Dennis's story is now included in the original posting (see below).

This report will be updated regularly

FOREVER FAMILY-- FOREVER DEAD: A MEMORIAM FOR RUSSIAN ADOPTEES

Originally published August 3, 2005

Nobody is forgotten. Nothing is forgotten.
Nikto ne zabyt - Nichto ne zabyto
....Olga Bergolts

Since 1996 at least 15 children adopted from Russia by USians have died at the hands of their Forever Parents.

"Experts" like to say that these kinds of deaths are "rare," yet no other national or ethnic cohort of children placed internationally with US parents have sustained such abuse. The Daily Bastardette will discuss the Russian situation in other posts, but for now, here are the stories of these children who have found their Forever Homes not with loving adoptive parents but in the grave.


DAVID POLREIS, JR, (birth name unknown) age 2, Greeley, Colorado. Died February 9, 1996; beaten and cut over 90% of his body. Adoptive mother Renee Polreis, 42, claimed David beat himself to death with a wooden spoon due to RAD. Husband, David Polreis, Sr. , a vice president of Con-Agra, was out of town at the time of the attack and was not implicated. Renee Polreis was convicted of child abuse resulting in death and sentenced to 18 years in prison. In 2000 her sentence was reduced; she was paroled in 2005 and remains on intensive supervised parole.

David was adopted from Tula; in US 6 months. Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: Rainbow House International, Belen, New Mexico. Second adoption for Polreis; first was bi-racial boy.

SELECTED RESOURCES:
Denver Westword, October 10, 1996, "Terrible Two"
Denver Westword March 27, 1997, "Psychological War"
Denver Westword, May 22, 1997, "Little Boy Lost"
(cannot link directly. Google for articles)


LOGAN HIGGINBOTHAM (birth name unknown) age 3, Shelburne, Vermont. Died November 25, 1998 of massive head injuries. Adoptive mother Laura Higginbotham, 33, claimed Logan fell and hit her head on the floor of an upstairs bedroom. The medical examiner was unable to determine if death was an accident or homicide. Three years later police reopened the case with other medical experts and concluded that Logan's head had been intentionally slammed into a wall. In 2004, Laura Higginbotham pled no contest to a charge of involuntary manslaughter and was sentenced to 1 year in prison. She will remain on parole until her older daughter, Layne also adopted from Russia is 18, According to an unsuccessful lawsuit filed in 2002 to force the state to pay for expert testimony, the combined annual income of Higginbaum and her husband was $72,984 (she grossed $5,264/mo with monthly expenses of $6.725) Higginbotham divorced and remarried. She remains in Shelburne with her new husband, adopted daughter and an infant daughter, presumably biological.

Logan was adopted from Smolensk; in US 7 months. Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: European Adoption Consultants, Strongsville, Ohio.


VIKTOR MATTHEY, born Viktor Sergeivich Tulimov, age 6, Hunterdon County, New Jersey. Died October 31, 2000 of cardiac arrest due to hypothermia after adoptive parents Robert and Brenda Matthey locked him overnight in a damp unheated pump room; also suffered over 40 cuts, scrapes, bruises and untreated fractures. Robert Matthey admitted beating Viktor with an aluminum baseball bat, a belt, 2 whips, and his open hand. Jury acquitted the couple on evidence tampering charges; deadlocked on manslaughter charges, but convicted them of lesser abuse charges. Both sentenced concurrently to 10 years in prison for confining Viktor to the pump room, 10 years for inflicting excessive corporal punishment and 7 years for failing to provide medical care. The Mattheys have 4 biological sons. Viktor was adopted with his younger twin brothers, now in the process of being adopted by Robert Matthey's mother who testified against the couple at their trial. Robert Matthey was a $25,000/yr auto mechanic; his wife was a stay-at-home mom and home schooler. The couplewere scheduled for retrial on manslaughter charges, though I haven't seen further news on that. They were both parolled in November 2008.

Viktor was adopted from Amur Region, Siberia; in US 10 months. Home Study and Post-Adoption Follow-up: Hawthorne, New Jersey Bethany Christian Services, social worker: Lori Phelan. Adoption Agency: Adoption Alliance, Denver, Colorado.

SELECTED RESOURCES:
Newark Star-Ledger, October 28, 2001, "The Short Life of Viktor Alexander Matthey"
Newark Star Ledger, May 10, 2007, "Mattheys sentenced to 4 years for Viktor's death"
Viktor's Hope


LUKE EVANS, (birth name unknown) age 1.5, Lowell, Indiana. Died November 30, 2001 of massive head injuries, shaken baby syndrome, and poor nutrition. He may have been developmentally delayed.Adoptive mother Natalie Fabian Evans, 33, claimed she couldn't wake Luke in the morning, and took him to the bathtub where she planned to place him in water to "stimulate him." Says he "may" have bumped his head on the tub. Local prosecutors took over a year to file charges because they wanted to be sure about the medical evidence. On June 30, 2006 Fabian Evans was found not guilty of murder, battery and neglect of a dependent after a doctor for the defense convinced a jury that Luke could have had "bleeding in his brain for days prior to the day" he was found unresponsive in his crib. Luke was adopted with an unrelated boy from his orphanage who was living at the time of Luke's death, with a relative of Natalie Evans.' Her husband Steven was not charged. In 2003 Natalie filed for divorce which wasn't granted until June 2006.

Luke was Adopted from Inozemtsevo; in US 6 months. Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: Small World International/Charity, New York City.

Selected Resources:
NW Times, June 30, 1996 Natalie Evans Testifies in Her Murder Trial


JACOB LINDORFF, (birth name unknown) age 5, Gloucester Twp., New Jersey. Died December 14, 2001 of blunt force trauma to head. Also suffered from 2nd degree burns on feet, hemorrhaging in 1 eye; bruises, and seizures. Adoptive mother Heather Lindorff, 36, was found guilty of 2nd degree endangering, aggravated assault and sentenced to 6 years. She claimed the injuries were accidents and begged judge not to separate her from her family. Adoptive father, James, 54, sentenced to 4 years probation and 400 hours of community service for child abuse. Couple also adopted 3 bio-sisters from Russia, Jacob was one of a fraternal twins; placed with the Lindorffs only 18 months after the sisters arrived. The remaining children were placed with Heather Lindorff's mother, Mildred Culllinan. In May 2004, Heather Lindorff was released on appeal bond and ordered not to visit children without supervision. That same month DYFS learned that children were back living with Lindorffs. Medical examinations found four children were malnourished, abused, and neglected. Heather Lindorff is serving out her sentence and will be released no later than June 2010. In September 2007, James Lindorff and Mildred Cullinan were charged in a murder-for-hire plot to kill a witness. On August 7, 2008, after a negotiated plea, he was found guilty of conspiracy to commit murder. Mildren Cullinan pled quilty to 90 days in jail after pleading down to hindering an investigation.

Jacob was adopted from Pskov Oblast; in US 6 weeks. Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: Open Door, Thomasville, Georgia.

SELECTED RESOURCES:
NJ.com, April 2, 2004, "Heather Lindorff Gets 6 Years"
Philadelphia Inquirer, June 1, 2006, "Revocation of Bail Sought in Death of Adopted 5-Year Old (paid archives)
NJ.com, September 1, 2007, "2 Charged in Murder or Hire Plot"


JESSICA ALBINA HAGMANN (birth name unknown) age 2 years, 7 months, Prince William County, Virginia. Died August 11, 2003 of mechanical asphyxia due to compression against an adult: lack of blood and oxygen. Adoptive mother Patrice Lynn Hagmann, 35, claimed Jessica was prone to tantrums that lasted as long as three hours and beat her head in crib. Autopsy indicated Jessica weighed only 27 pounds when she died . She was covered with bruises including five 'purplish' bruises near her right eye, seven on her forehead, two on her scalp, and one each on both cheeks; also a healing lesion on one palm and bruises on her upper body, leg back one on her abdominal area. Hagmann’s defense argued that she used “holding therapy” to “calm.” Jessica. The book, Help for the Helpless Child.* was seized from home by police. Adoptive father Glenn Hagmann not implicated in death. The couple had a biological son, 3, who at the time of the trial was living with Patrice’s mother. In December 2003 Hagmann took an Alford plea (pleading no contest, without acknowledging guilt). Prosecutors recommended 14 years in prison, In January 2004 the court sentenced her to five years for each charge, suspended dependent on five years probation.

Jessica was adopted from Moscow. Time in US: 8 months. Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: unknown,. (NOTE: agency representative was present in courtroom for sentencing but neither agency nor rep was identified by press).

*I have not found this title, but did find Help for the Hopeless Child: A Guide for Families with Special Discussion for Addressing and Treating the Post-Institutionalized Child) by Ron Federici, which I believe is the correct title.

SELECTED RESOURCES:
Manassas Journal Messenger, January 21, 2004, County Mother to be Sentenced in Death of Child

ZACHARY HIGIER (born Nikita Khoryakovont), age 2, Braintree, Massachusetts. Died August 15, 2002 of severe trauma to the head. Adoptive mother Natalia Higier, 47 claimed he fell out of his crib or hit his head on the kitchen floor, but doctors said injuries were consistent with falling out of a 3-story building. Jacob had a bilateral skull fracture, a massive stroke on the right side of his brain, a smaller stroke on left side, brain swelling and detached retinas. Later Higier said she was tossing him in the air when he hit his head on the coffee table. Husband not charged; couple now divorced. Higier pled guilty to involuntary manslaughter and was sentenced to 2 1/2 years in jail, with 18 months balance of sentence suspended for 4 years; also required to attend anger management classes. The Higiers had a history of domestic violence and restraining orders against each other.

Zachary was adopted from Orenburg Region. Time in US: unknown. Home Study: Adoption Resource Associates, Cambridge, Massachusetts; social worker: Laura Nemeyer. Adoption Agency: Frank Adoption Center, Raleigh, North Carolina.

SELECTED RESOURCES:
Quincy Patriot-Ledger, August 16, 2003, "Mom called Unconcerned About Son"
WCVB-TV Boston, August 31, 2004, "Mom Sentenced in Adopted Son's Death"
(cannot link directly. Google for articles)


MARIA ANASTASIA BENNETT, (birth name unknown) age 2, (right) Lancaster, Ohio. Died October 23, 2002 of Shaken Baby Syndrome. She died at Columbus Children's Hospital four days after her adoptive mother Susan Jane Bennett, 41 claimed that she tripped while carrying Maria from the bathroom to a bedroom, dropping her backwards causing her head to hit floor. Medical evidence indicated fatal head wounds and eye injuries could not be caused by such a drop. Bennett pled no contest to 1 count of reckless homicide. She originally faced 8 years in prison. Prosecutors recommended 4 years, but said they would not oppose probation after 2 years served. Bennett was sentenced to 3 years. Bennett, adopted another child, Sarah, a year earlier from the same orphanage. At last report, Sarah is in the custody of Bennett's relatives. Bennett, a single mother, was a software programmer for an insurance company and had no prior record.

Maria was adopted from Ussurisk near Vladivostok in US for 9 months. Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: Focus on Children, Wellsville, Utah.

Selected Resources:
Lancaster Eagle-Gazette, November 8, 2003, "Mom Sentenced in Child's Death (not online)

LIAM DMITRY THOMPSON, born Dmitry Sergeyevich Ishlankulov, age 3, Galloway, Ohio. Died October 16, 2003 at Columbus Doctors Hospital West of scalding and neglect. Five days earlier, adoptive father, Gary Allen Thompson, put Liam in a bathtub of 140 degree water causing 2nd and 3rd degree burns; skin peeled off legs. Instead of seeking treatment Thompson put him on a crib mattress in an unheated basement. Adoptive mother, LPN Amy Lyna Thompson, whose diary revealed she didn't like Liam or his adopted sister, failed to notice the seriousness of burns for 2 days, then treated him with Tylenol and Vaseline. Liam was taken to the hospital only when he went into respitory failure. Autopsy revealed severe burns on both legs, right arm, back, and buttocks; bruises on neck, right side of upper lip, right eye, both cheeks and forehead. The official cause of death is listed as "thermal injuries."Amy Thompson pled guilty to child endangering and involuntary manslaughter and was sentenced to 14 years in prison and is still incarcerated. Gary Thompson pled guilty to murder and was sentenced to 15-life. Amy Thompson's daughter from her previous marriagewas last reported in foster care; the Thompsons' biological son lives with relatives; and the daughter they adopted with Liam, has been adopted by a local couple.

Liam was adopted from Blagoveshchensk; in US 5 months. Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: Tree of Life. Portland, Oregon. (Tree of Life also placed a 5-year old Romanian orphan with William Peckenpaugh who was later convicted of 33 charges including 9 counts of sodomy and 3 counts of sexual abuse against the boy).

Selected Resources:
Columbus Dispatch, December 3, 2003, "Father Peads Guilty to Burning, Killing Son


ALEX PAVLIS, born Alex Geiko, age 6, Schaumburg, Illinois. Died December 19, 2003 of severe beating. Adoptive mother Irma Pavlis admitted to punching Alex hard in the stomach and slapping him. She said he was mentally unstable and suicidal; defense lawyer argued his behavior which included banging his head in walls and urinating and defecating through the house were caused by Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, which the Pavlis' were unaware of when they adopted Alex. Husband Dino Pavlis was not charged. Irma Pavlis sentenced to 12 years for involuntary manslaughter, paroled out of state in March 2008. Alex was adopted with his younger sister last reported in foster care.

Alex was adopted from Yeysk; in US 6 weeks. Home Study: Mt. Vernon, Illinois Baptist Children's Home and Family Services. Adoption Agency: independent adoption.

SELECTED RESOURCES:
WMAQ-TV, Chicago, April 14, 2005, "Pavlis Trial: Defendant's Video Statement Shown" (cannot link directly. Google for articles)
ABC News, May 17, 2005, "Boy's Death May Halt US Adoptions"


DENNIS GENE MERRYMAN, born Denis Uritsky, age 8, Harford County, Maryland. Died January 22, 2005 of cardiac arrest brought on by starvation; weighed 37 pounds, 2 pounds less than when doctors examined him in October 2000. Medical examiner could find no underlying conditions and ruled death a homicide. Adoptive father Samuel Merryman, 37, and adoptive mother Donna Merryman, 42, arrested on August 3, 2005 and charged with manslaughter, 1st degree child abuse resulting in death, and reckless endangerment. Samuel Merryman's parents posted a property bond of $50,000 for each. Merryman's mother, Olivia, claims that despite cororner's findings, Dennis suffered from cystic fibrosis, digestive problems and "may have had other problems." Samuel and Donna Merryman are born again Christians, Sunday School teachers, and home schoolers. They have 2 biological children, and Donna Merryman has a daughter from a previous marriage. On February 25, 2008 the couple pled guilty to 1st degree child abuse resulting in death; 4 child abuses charges relating to two of their daughters were dropped in the plea bargain agreement. When asked by the judge if they were pleading guilty because they were guilty, the answered "yes." The Merrymans have been under house arrest and have supervised visits with other children. On April 17, 2008 they were each sentenced to 22 years in prison and are currently incarcerated.

Dennis was adopted from Ochery in the Perm Region with 1 older biological brother and 2 older biological sisters, all with medical problems discovered after adoptions; in the US nearly 5 years.
Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: Adoptions Forever (closed)

SELECTED RESOURCES:
Baltimore Sun, February 26, 2008, "Harford Couple Plead Guilty"
Baltimore Sun, April 18, 2008, "Prison for child's death"


NINA HILT, born Viktoria Bazhenova, age 2.5, Wake Forest, North Carolina. Died July 2, 2005 on visit to Manassas, Virginia from blows to the abdominal area. Adoptive mother, Peggy Sue Hilt, 33, told investigators she was "enraged and angered" at Nina, shook her, dropped her on floor, kicked her in the stomach, then picked her up, put her in bed and continued to strike her with a closed right fist on her back and stomach. Nina's sister adopted from Ukraine in an independent adoption through Cathy Harris, Nataliya Oksana, was put into protective custody and later placed in the custody of an aunt. Peggy Sue Hilt was held without bond in Prince William County, Virginia until trial; husband Christopher Hilt was not charged. a Functional alcoholic, Hilt had workedas a dental assistant; her husband was a computer consultant. On May 25, 2006, Hilt was sentenced to 35 years in prison with 10 years suspended; will serve 21-22 years due to time served awaiting trial. Christopher Hilt plans to divorce his wife and is expected to regain custody of Nataliya. In April 2008 Peggy Sue Hilt was featured in the WE-TV documentary Women Behind Bars.

Nina was adopted from Siberia; in US 1.5 years (approx) Home Study: A Loving Family, Alexandra, Virginia (no longer operating). Post Placement Report (2005): A Child's Hope, Raleigh, North Carolina. Adoption Agency: Adoptions International, Dallas, Texas owned by adoption lawyer Jody Hall.

SELECTED RESOURCES:
Charlotte News & Observer, July 14, 2005, "Slain Girl was Second Couple Adopted" (cannot link directly. Google for article)

WRAL-TV, Raleigh, July 28, 2005, Community Gather to Remember Russian Child Allegedly Beaten By Adoptive Mother (cannot link directly. Google for article)

Washington Post, May 26, "Mother Sentenced to 25 Years" (cannot link directly. Google for article)

WE-TV: Peggy Sue Hilt's Blog (and links to Hilt segment)

Hilt Family webpage


ISSAC JONATHAN DYKSTRA, (birth name unknown), age 21 months, Iowa City, Died August 14, 2005 , the day after he was hospitalized for injuries reportedly incurred from an accidental fall a few days earlier. On August 7, 2008, after a nearly 3-year investigation, adoptive father, Brian Dykstra, 31, was charged with 2^nd degree murder. He plead Not Guilty on October 2 and is currently free on $15,000 bond. Adoptive mother, Dr. Lisa Dykstra, now an Assistant Professor of Spanish at Clemson University is not implicated and wasn’t charged.

On August 13, 2005, Brian Dykstra called 911 saying Isaac was having a 'little seizure" and difficulty breathing from what "might be related to a head injury" Isaac was recovering from club foot surgery and Dykstra claimed the baby had fallen a few days earlier after the cast was removed, but had shown no signs of injury. According to police, Isaac had massive brain swelling, severe bleeding inside the skull, and retinal swelling in both eyes. He also had severe bruising on his torso and legs. The description is consistent with shaken baby syndrome, not a fall on the floor.

Isaac was adopted from Krasnoyarsk. In US: 3 months. Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: unknown

Dykstra is scheduled for a pre-trial hearing on April 29 and the trial set to start on May 10, 2010.

Selected Resources:
Iowa City Police News Release, August 8, 2008: Former IC Man Charged for Death of Adopted Child

Iowa City Press-Citizen, October 3, 2008: Witnesses Listed in Infant Death Trial

NICOLI (KOLYA) EMELYANTSEV, (birth name unknown) age 14 months, Tooele, Utah. Died March 7, 2008 from a "significant skull fracture" caused by blunt force trauma. Adoptive mother, Kimberly Emelyantsev 33, charged with murder. Called 911 saying Kolya was barely breathing after fall from a chair. Adoptive father, Fyodor Emelylantsev, 31, a Russian citizen, under investigation for suspicion of child abuse by malnutrition involving 4-year old, Luka, adopted from Russia in December. Kolya had Down Syndrome as does Luka and F. Emelylantsev's biological 10-year old daughter. F. Emelylantsev reportedly holds an MA in genetics, is trained to work with the disabled and is an RN working at a local nursing home. Kolya's parents voluntarily relinquished their rights, visited him in an orphanage weekly and wanted regular updates on him from adoptive family. On June 6, K. Emelylantsev, pled guilty to a lowered charge of 2nd degree felony child abuse homicide. She admitted to dropping Kolya on the floor "more than once." The county prosecutor says that no intent to kill the baby could be shown. Abuse charges against the couple in Luka's case were dismissed due to lack of evidence. On October 10, 2008 K. Emelylantsev's was sentenced to up to 15 years in prison. During her post-conviction psychiatric evaluation she admitted grabbing Kolya by an arm and leg and repeatedly slamming him in the floor. According to defense attorney, Kimberley suffered from a ""depressive disorder" after the adoption, and her husband Fyodor refused to participate in "an extraordinary familial situation." She says she never wanted to adopt Kolya, but was afraid to say no to Fyodor and afraid of what the neighbors would think if she didn't go through with the adoption plan. K. Emelyantse is a parlegal and wanted to attend law school.

Kolya was adopted from the Moscow Region; in US less than 1 month. Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: About a Child, DesMoines, Iowa (Russian press reports adoption was independent).

SELECTED RESOURCES:
March 14, 2008, Dead, Another Starving
Truveo, "US Baby Death Puts Russian Adoption in Doubt"
Salt Lake City Tribune, October 11, 2008, "Mother Must Serve Up to 15 Years for Death of Adopted Son"


CHASE HARRISON, born Dmitry Yakolev, age 21 months, Purcellville, Virgina. Died July 8, 2008 in Herndon, Virginia after adoptive father Miles Harrison, 49, left him in SUV for "several hours," in 91 degree heat. Temperature inside anywhere between 131-172,. Harrison was supposed to take the boy to daycare, but "forgot" about him and left him in the car all day while he was at work. Chase was found after a co-worker reported seeing something in SUV (windows are tinted). Harrison is the managing relocation director at Project Solutions Group. He collapsed at the scene and was hospitalized. He has been charged with manslaughter and faces up to 10 years in prison. Wife Carol, 45 questioned, but not implicated. According to the July 12 edition of the Russian language paper Gazetta, attempts to place Dima in Russia were unsuccessful because he had "a series of serious diseases."

Chase was adopted from the Pechora City Children's Home, Psov area; in the US 3 months.

Home Study: Adoption Connections, Falls Church, Virginia. Social Worker: Christine Hessinger. Adoption Agency: European Adoption Consultants, Strongsville, Ohio. EAC also placed Logan Higginbotham. (see above) According to RBC News and Gazetta (Russian language papers) the Russian Education and Science Ministry's adoption commission has banned EAC from working in the Russian Federation for failure to inform Russian authorities immediately of Chase's death, a breach of Russian law. The July 14 edition of The Moscow Times reported that it was only under investigated.

SELECTED RESOURCES:
Washington Post, July 10, 2008, "VA Toddler Dies After Father Leaves him SUV"
Fairfax Times, July 10, 2008, "Father Charged After Son Dies in Unattended Car in Herndon"
Novistii, July 11, 2008, "Russia Bans 3 Adoption Agencies Following Baby's Death in US"
RBC News, July 11, 20008, "Россия запретит усыновление международным организациям"
Gazetta, July 12 2009, "Россия отсекла усыновителей"
Moscow Times, July 14, 2008, "Two Agencies Barred After Boy's Death"
Fairfax Times, July 22, 2008, "Purcellville Toddler Remembered"
Washington Post, July 23, 2008, "Father Indicted in Toddler's Death in Hot SUV"


Nathaniel Michael Craver (birth name: Ivan Skorobogatov), age 7, Dillsburg/Carroll Township, Pennsylvania. Died August 25, 2009 at Penn State Hershey Medical Center after being taken off life support. The autopsy revealed Vanya suffered 80 external injuries, including 20 to the head. Old injuries, including fractures to his forehead and old blood beneath his scalp were found. The coroner also found evidence of malnourishment and "severe failure to thrive." Adopters Michael and Nanette Craver say that Vanya caused injuries to himself.

On August 19, the Cravers claim Vanya fell and hit his head on a wood stove in their home, but seemed OK. Next day he was found unresponsive in his urine soaked bed and taken to the ER. Michael Craver's mother told investigators that on Memorial Day 2009 she was shocked to see Vanya's eyes swollen shut and was told by her son that the boy rubbed and scratched his eyes and wouldn't leave them alone. She also reported that Vanya would shake when he thought he would get in trouble over something. An adoptive aunt reported that in August 2009 Nathaniel's eyes were swollen shut and the left side of his face was swollen. There are no records of medical treatment for any of the injuries Vanya supposedly suffered at his own hand.

On February 26, 2010, Michael J. Craver, 45 and Nanette L. (Korkuch) Craver, 54 were arrested and charged with criminal homicide, conspiracy, and child endangerment. They are currently held in the York County Prison without bond. Authorities said they made no connection between the death and Vanya's Russian adoptee status and were surprised when Russia TV crews showed up at his office. In May 2010, York County Senior deputy prosecutor Jennifer Russell, citing Vanya's age and the state's contention that his death constituted torture, said she would seek the death penalty. On June 14, the Cravers pled not guilty to all charges. No trial date has been set.

Additional information: Sometime in 2008 , the Cravers briefly lost physical custody of Vanya and his twin sister Elizabeth (now in care) while York County Children and Youth Services investigated alleged negligence and poor conditions in the home. (no details) The children were returned and pulled out of public school to be home schooled. (Another report says they were already being home schooled).

In 2003, Vanya and his twin sister Dasha (now known as Elizabeth) were adopted from Dom Rebyonka #9 in Troiotsk, Chelyabinsk region. In US 6 years (approx). Home Study: unknown. Adoption Agency: Lutheran Social Services of the South, Austin, Texas. (accredited in Russia 2001-5/20/2005. Never re-accredited and closed Russian program). Post-Placement: unknown.

Selected resources:
Harrisburg Patriot-News, February 27, 2010. "York County parents charged in death of their son, 7"
York Dispatch, March 4, 2010. "Prosecutor: Local boy's death sparks international attention"
York Dispatch, March 5, 2010. "Carroll Twp. couple charged in child's death"

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Other Russian adoptees have survived brutal treatment from their Forever Parents. Though no one has yet completely documented the number of cases, here is one survivor:

KELSEY HYRE, age 2, Akron Ohio. Permanently paralyzed September 26, 2002. Spine severed after her adoptive father Gerald Hyre slammed her on the floor. Adoptive mother, Bonnie Hyre, who was at work at the time, took her to hospital when she came home. Ms. Hyre had previously suspected her husband of abusing both Kelsey and her adoptive brother Nathan, 3, and taken photos of other injuries, discussed suspicions with co-workers, but after husband's arrested she destroyed pictures and did nothing. Gerald Hyre sentenced to 16 years for felonious assault and child abuse. Bonnie Hyre sentenced to 2 years for permitting child abuse and evidence tampering and is now out of jail. Kelsey has been adopted by another couple and is reportedly responding well. Nathan was placed with Bonnie Hyre's mother, but Bonnie Hyre now has custody.

Kelsey and Nathan were probably adopted from Blagoveshchensk. Home Study: A Child is Waiting, Akron, Ohio (Also see my Stephpanie Bennett blogs for ACW other activities). Adoption Agency: Building Blocks Adoption Services, Medina, Ohio.

Nikto ne zabyt - Nichto ne zabyto

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Thanks Dan and Elizabeth Case for their assistance in preparing this piece. For more information on Russian adoptions and abuse in the US please go to their website Beware of BBAS.com: an Experiment in Literary Investigation

Thanks, also to Niels Hoogveen from Pound Pup Legacy, especially for information on the Jessica Albina Hagmann case.

FOR MORE INFORMATION SEE:

James Marsh's ChildLaw blog

"Adoptee Deaths are Rare, Experts Say," Chicago Tribune, May 26, 2004 (now in paid archives but found here.

Also see my blogs on Masha Allen

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(updated July 5, 2010)